The title is self-explanatory. These are things that I don’t understand, some in good ways, some in bad ways, some in neutral ways. These are in no particular order.
- Sushi. I know people like it, I just don’t know why. For the record, I’ve tried it a few times just to make sure. After almost hurling up the last attempt sixteen years ago, I decided that I was done. You can have my share.
- Misogyny. Why do some men hate women and think that they are inferior? Is your ego so fragile that you can’t accept women as equals? Smh.
- Child prodigies. Amazing, but HOW???
- Urban sprawl. I brought my son home from college this week and we went the long way down Geddes Road. We passed a bunch of new subdivisions and all of the houses were beige. Every. Single. One. Why beige? And why don’t real estate investors put their money into revamping old neighborhoods rather than taking over wild areas? It could be awesome and not beige. Something that I think about.
- Football. Four years of marching band and being married to a football fan for twenty-one years and I still can’t tell you what’s happening.
- Parents who don’t parent and their kids are wild. Enough said.
- Real Housewives of Anything. I can’t watch spoiled, middle-aged, drama queens.
- The Bachelor or The Bachelorette. Not my cup of tea (she says while watching Hoarders and Say Yes To the Dress).
- Sardines. I’m Italian and I still don’t understand sardines.
- Beer. I LOVE the smell of beer, I truly do, and I tried it enough times to know that it makes me nauseous when I drink it. Friends of mine are discriminating beer drinkers and love it. I wish I understood beer, but wine makes it better.
- The Golf Channel.
- Early morning band or sports activities on a Saturday. This is sadism, pure and simple. This goes hand-in-hand with:
- Waking up early when you don’t have to. Nothing against early-morning people, but I’m naturally a night owl. Yes, sunrises are beautiful, especially in December when the sunrises at a decent hour, like 8 o’clock. Wake up at 5 AM in June to watch the sun come up? Nah, I’m good.
- Lawn obsessions.
- Mosquitoes.
- Girl toys and boy toys. Let the kids play with what they want without putting a label on it. My boys had cars and Legos, but they also had dolls and a kitchen. Big freaking deal.
- Pointy-toed shoes.
- Walmart.
- The addictive power of Cadbury Mini-Eggs.
- Kanye West. And while I’m at it,
- Kardashians in general.
- The “teenage boy smell”.
- Blue Moon Ice Cream.
- Racism. It’s ugly. It’s ignorant. It needs to stop.
- Giant houses. The bigger the house, the more there is to clean.
- Unmade beds.
- Internet trolls.
- Armpit hair. Why? It’s smelly and yucky and serves no purpose.
- Purposely loud cars.
- Fake geese that wear clothes as porch decorations.
- Astrophysics.
- Regular physics
- Frogs legs as food. I want to know who the first person was to think, “Let’s eat a slimy frog!”
- My life. You’d think, by now, that I’d know what I’m doing. Not true. I’m just winging it.
- God. Not the idea of God; I’m unashamedly a believer. I just wish I knew more real information, clear-cut answers to things instead of listening to people who have twisted things to their own interpretation and agenda. I have to go by my heart and what I feel, but there are times that I would love a “what do you really think about this?” conversation with Him.
This is by no means a full list. The older I get, the more I realize that I don’t know. Some of these things I’ll work to understand, such as the God thing, but others aren’t important, just points of curiosity. In the meantime, I’m going to go look for an episode of Hoarders and chow on some Cadbury Mini-Eggs.
Feel free to comment with things that you don’t understand.